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April 10, 2026

I Thought Taking Care of Myself Was Wasting Time. I Was Dead Wrong.

I Thought Taking Care of Myself Was Wasting Time. I Was Dead Wrong.

For years Jesse believed that sleeping enough, exercising, and building habits for himself meant he was giving up time he could be spending on the work. He was wrong. The moment he started honoring himself first — his output at work got better. His clients got more. His business grew.…

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April 9, 2026

Stop Winning At Work And Losing At Life

Stop Winning At Work And Losing At Life

You can be great at your job and still be losing the parts of life that actually make success worth it. That’s where we start: the quiet trade so many high performers make, sacrificing sleep, health, learning, and real presence with the people we love so we can keep delivering,…

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April 9, 2026

Plan, Commit, Execute: Stop Managing Time and Start Managing Yourself

Plan, Commit, Execute: Stop Managing Time and Start Managing Yourself

At 30 years old Jesse got a warning from his doctor that stopped him cold. His body had the complications of a morbidly obese older man. He wasn't obese. He was a high performer. Grinding. Delivering. Giving everything to the job and the people around him. And quietly destroying himself…

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April 8, 2026

Why Your Time Blocking Isn't Working

Why Your Time Blocking Isn't Working

Most time management advice gets one thing completely wrong. It teaches you how to get more efficient. It never asks what you're getting efficient for. So you time block. You optimize. You claw back hours in your day. And then watch that new time disappear into the same pile of…

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April 7, 2026

The Truth About Your Company Isn't Online

The Truth About Your Company Isn't Online

Forget the website. The jobsite tells the truth. When was the last time a leader walked your site? —or you walked one yourself? Get the Time Management System that makes people dangerously effective: https://www.depthbuilder.com/time-management-webinar-sign-up-page Download your free copy of Becoming the Promise You are Intended to Be: https://www.depthbuilder.com/books Sign up…

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April 6, 2026

The Talent Problem No One in Construction Talks About

The Talent Problem No One in Construction Talks About

Some of the best people in this industry are stuck. Not because they lack skill— but because no one listens. 💬 You ever been there? Get the Time Management System that makes people dangerously effective: https://www.depthbuilder.com/time-management-webinar-sign-up-page Download your free copy of Becoming the Promise You are Intended to Be: https://www.depthbuilder.com/books…

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April 3, 2026

The Construction Industry Has a Crisis Nobody Wants to Talk About — And It's Not the Labor Shortage

The Construction Industry Has a Crisis Nobody Wants to Talk About — And It's Not the Labor Shortage

Not enough people. A suicide epidemic. Mental health and substance abuse running through the industry like a current nobody acknowledges. That's the reality of construction right now. But the companies winning aren't the ones with the best benefits package. They're the ones making their people feel like they actually matter.…

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April 2, 2026

The Dirty Secret About Moving Up in Construction Nobody Prepares You For — With Gary Borque

The Dirty Secret About Moving Up in Construction Nobody Prepares You For — With Gary Borque

Most people in construction get promoted and handed a completely different job with the same title. No roadmap. No manual. No honest conversation about what moving up is actually going to cost them. Gary Borque lived that. Multiple times. He started as a fabricator, worked his way through the millwright…

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April 2, 2026

The Dirty Secret About Moving Up in Construction Nobody Will Say Out Loud — With Gary Borque

The Dirty Secret About Moving Up in Construction Nobody Will Say Out Loud — With Gary Borque

You worked your way up. You earned the title. And the moment you got there — you felt like a fraud. Gary Borque went from fabricator to director of field operations and lived every hard version of that transition. In this episode he gets honest about what moving up in…

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April 1, 2026

He Was a Director of Field Operations. And He Still Felt Like a Fraud.

He Was a Director of Field Operations. And He Still Felt Like a Fraud.

Everyone talks about climbing the ladder in construction. Nobody talks about what happens when you get there and still feel like you don't belong. Gary Borque went from fabricator to director of field operations. And somewhere in that climb he hit a wall that had nothing to do with the…

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March 31, 2026

He Worked For the Worst Leaders in Construction. Then He Became One. Here's What Changed.

He Worked For the Worst Leaders in Construction. Then He Became One. Here's What Changed.

Every tradesman has worked for that guy. The one who tears people down instead of building them up. The one who leads with fear because it's the only tool he knows. Gary Borque worked for those guys too. And instead of becoming one of them he made a different choice…

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March 27, 2026

He Had the Job Every Tradesman Works Toward — And It Wasn't Enough.

He Had the Job Every Tradesman Works Toward — And It Wasn't Enough.

Every tradesman has a version of this goal. Work your way up. Make good money. Run the jobs. Be the guy. He did all of it. Superintendent for a mechanical contractor. Debt paid off. Good money in the bank. And he was done. If you've ever stood on a jobsite…

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March 26, 2026

Keep the Flame Alive: Apprenticeships, Retention, and Building a Training Culture in the Trades (...

Keep the Flame Alive: Apprenticeships, Retention, and Building a Training Culture in the Trades (...

Jesse hosts the Learnings and Missteps podcast and interviews Manja Horner, founder and CEO of Boost Learning Design, about solving skilled-trades workforce shortages driven by retirements and the long push toward college over trades. Manja introduces her book, “Pass the Torch: A Call to Rescue the Future of Trades,” and…

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March 26, 2026

Why Apprenticeships Are the Real Cure for Burnout in Construction — With Manja Horner

Why Apprenticeships Are the Real Cure for Burnout in Construction — With Manja Horner

Jesse hosts the Learnings and Missteps podcast and interviews Manja Horner, founder and CEO of Boost Learning Design, about solving skilled-trades workforce shortages driven by retirements and the long push toward college over trades. Manja introduces her book, “Pass the Torch: A Call to Rescue the Future of Trades,” and…

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March 25, 2026

The Real Reason Your Best People Keep Leaving (It's Not the Pay)

The Real Reason Your Best People Keep Leaving (It's Not the Pay)

Every company thinks they can solve retention with a better benefits package. They're wrong. Tomorrow we drop a full episode with a framework called the Talent Flywheel — and it starts on day one of employment. If you're building a crew and struggling to keep them, you need to hear…

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March 24, 2026

He Told Me to Rat Out My Friends. I Said No. Then He Changed My Mind.

He Told Me to Rat Out My Friends. I Said No. Then He Changed My Mind.

It's not that foremen don't want to get better. It's that superintendents and PMs aren't creating the space for it — then wondering why performance is suffering. If you're complaining about under skilled foremen but not creating the conditions for them to train — this week's podcast is for you.…

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March 23, 2026

That doesn't give you a badge!

That doesn't give you a badge!

Getting yelled at doesn't make you tough. Manja Horner drops the truth on what actually builds a crew. Full episode drops Thursday. Get the Time Management System that makes people dangerously effective: https://www.depthbuilder.com/time-management-webinar-sign-up-page Download your free copy of Becoming the Promise You are Intended to Be: https://www.depthbuilder.com/books Sign up for…

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March 21, 2026

Most construction managers aren’t behind because they’re working too little…

Most construction managers aren’t behind because they’re working too little…

They’re behind because they’re focused on the wrong things. Catch this week's episode, where we break down: How interruptions destroy productivity and a simple system high performers use to stay ahead. Get the Time Management System that makes people dangerously effective: https://www.depthbuilder.com/time-management-webinar-sign-up-page Download your free copy of Becoming the Promise…

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March 20, 2026

Is Technology Overrated in Construction? (Vote Now)

Is Technology Overrated in Construction? (Vote Now)

The industry is pushing hard toward AI, drones, and automation… but most jobsites are still struggling with the basics. So here's the real question 👇(link to poll) https://www.youtube.com/post/Ugkx97mRte66l1ISoDje_Ovk2zRn2ZRTJfa- Vote on the poll @learningsandmissteps and drop a comment telling me what tech you've actually seen work on a jobsite (or fail…

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March 19, 2026

Why LESS WORK beats High Productivity

Why LESS WORK beats High Productivity

Jesse explains the second half of his FIREBOX time- and self-management framework for freeing calendar space and preventing burnout so you can invest in what matters most. After briefly reviewing “Finish First” (time-sensitive and only you can do) and “Invest Focus” (not urgent but only you can do, guided by…

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March 19, 2026

You're Doing Work That Isn't Yours - Why LESS WORK Beats High Productivity

You're Doing Work That Isn't Yours - Why LESS WORK Beats High Productivity

Ever come home from a week of travel to an empty fridge, a full inbox, and zero time. Sound familiar? This episode hits the two most overlooked reasons people stay overwhelmed – and why most skip fixing them because it means giving up control. Your time back is on the…

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March 18, 2026

The Delegation Episode That Will Change How Construction Leaders Think About Time

The Delegation Episode That Will Change How Construction Leaders Think About Time

Delegation feels slow... until it frees you completely. Most construction leaders avoid delegation because the setup feels heavier than just doing it themselves. That's the trap. Train once - gain forever. If you're running crews, managing projects, or trying to get your head above water in this industry - this…

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March 17, 2026

AI is Coming to Construction, But Leadership Will Matter Even More

AI is Coming to Construction, But Leadership Will Matter Even More

Nobody's training replacements anymore. Not because the work dried up. Because somewhere along the way, construction leaders started betting on systems over people, and now the industry is feeling it. AI scheduling. AI estimating. AI safety analysis. The tools are real and they're already on jobsites. But tools don't make…

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March 13, 2026

Breakthrough Moments: How Self-Reflection Overtakes External Advice

Breakthrough Moments: How Self-Reflection Overtakes External Advice

🎙️ Why is YOUR self-reflection crucial in therapy? Dive into a no-nonsense talk in this week's Learning's & Missteps episode about owning your breakthroughs and avoiding power-play dynamics in counseling. Watch the full video to learn why your journey matters most. Link to Podcast Video https://youtu.be/nNr54Gweny4 Link to Podcast (Audio…

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